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            The GG TG TS Attractiveness debate!

This debate when brought up creates a division between GGs and the Trans community and to be honest no matter what line you are on when you present yourself as a woman you if you are an M2F person you are putting on all the concerns of all women.

This is what I think,

IT has nothing to do with who looks better than the other, the fact is that men are visual and men are attracted to a woman based on how she looks and if she is his style of a woman. I can show a male a picture of a CD, TG, TS Pre & Post, and a GG all wearing the same clothing and looking as close to similar and I would say that the male subject would find attractiveness in each category of the woman shown.

Now because we operate within our own community we only can see out of our side of the window. I believe also men seek T-Women because of what they believe is the exotic nature that we have which is far from the truth! 

With this knowledge, I have been all over Flickr and I have seen all types of women getting the same types of responses however everyone posts what they believe to be their best photo online either half-naked or fully clothed I have seen the same kind of responses from men. In my early years online I ran from the attention and one time I acted on the attention from a male admirer which as I was going to meet him I got regrets and the encounter lasted about 5 minutes. From then on I learned that I am a woman when they see me and some of these guys do not care! The one thing that also attracts some of these men is that a T-Woman is more likely to see them because some of the T-Women feel that if they are put into a bad situation they can get out of it! I think this may be true with only the part-time girls however the full-time girls use the same caution as all women. 

Another example I have noticed is a woman who shows herself giving in a photo either GG or TG will also attract the wrong type of attention as well as give an opening for an admirer to beg to meet up.

I have seen some natal women who have t-women twins which lately I have seen quite a few women who are 100% who look just like some of the t-women I see online every day! I have been told that I look like a lady who works for the state and she is 100% woman! So when I read things like and I am quoting “Because some t-girls look ten times better than real ones” this statement is not true because I have done double-takes on the women they look like in public! Not to mention most of us look like a female relative of our family in the first place and in some cases we look like one of our sisters, I at times favor one of my sisters, and other times I favor my mother.

One other thing about this debate is that if you feel your better than natal women they will pick that up on you in public and make your outing a living hell! I have recently begun adding natal women to my Flickr profile in fact some of them added me! I appreciate being accepted by them and I will make sure not to embarrass them as when I am out in public I not only represent t-women but all women in general so I do not want to do anything negative.

Just remember if you look comfortable and act as a woman to the public no matter how big or small you are a woman.

Taken on: February 9, 2009

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